Most definitely not equally mind you, but this whole thing is not all about those dirty old white men. And ya keep rolling until you get the result ya want, and you know why? He’s gotta put it out there enough until the finally gets the jackpot he’s been looking for, then cash out and go party. What younger Lady wouldn’t accept if he sat down beside her and whispered, “Hello gorgeoush.
Normally I’m a Ladies First kinda guy, but not this time. Nothing was gonna change one way or another, so who cared? Cuz men are expected to make that move, face and accept rejection and then do it all over again. And the men who quit trying, or never even began trying in the first place and get bitter, angry and pout in silence about it. You and I should sit down and ship shome martinish shometime.”(OK that was a really bad Scottish accent but you get the picture….
I understand the allure of a gentleman with a more mature a outlook on life that your peers in your age group. I also understand you just might want to try some of that.
Heh heh…don’t be shy now, I’ve seen this, I’ve heard this and I know for a fact it goes on.
And I never said there was anything wrong with being curious about that 😉 Allow me to illustrate, if I may.
I once had a coworker who was 22, recent college grad, entrepreneurial and a devastating combination of intelligence, ambition and good looks.
It seems there’s a restlessness amongst some of you when it comes to guys closer in your age. You’re ready to move on and some of these guys are still in the X Box and baseball hats phase.
You are ready to move on in your life, make some serious decisions regarding your future, looking at the world around you from a broader perspective and are itching to get out there into it in ways the younger version of you didn’t really used to think about. You’re ready to make some post education career decisions and these guys are still kinda spinning their wheels and don’t seem to mind it much.
Well, pretty much every discussion here is interesting but this one particularly so. Cuz see, I’m part of problem they were talking about. actually I probably will be in about 20 years or so.
It caught my eye real fast and I wanted to crash it and start in with my .02 about the problem these Ladies were talking about. Heh heh…they were talking about older white guys hitting on much younger Black Women. I sat back and grinned the whole time you were talking about it, too!
As I scroll dating site after dating site I find there is a common deception, done by both men and women alike.
A con of all cons, that can cause somebody like me to pass you by in an instant.
“Hey, come over here and talk to me,” a guy said standing with a group of friends. As I prepare for a Summer stint across the pond, I thought I'd repost this lovely piece written exclusively for The Creamin My by my favorite New Zealander, not to confused with Zoolander, Jim O'Don...