A guy who’s a pushover is one of the worst kinds of men in the hierarchy of dating. Just a word though, it’s just an advantage, but it’s not enough. Women like to be respected by the man they like, but they also like being with a guy who’s respected by others. Or stand up and claim the respect you deserve from them.
A pushover is a guy who prefers to accept defeat just to avoid conflict with someone who’s dominating him. But it’s better to face the truth than pretend like money doesn’t matter. If someone doesn’t respect you, is it your own fault? It all comes down to this, if you genuinely respect yourself and have an ego, would you ever allow someone to throw you around for no fault of yours? [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation] #9 A confident man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet.
The tables are turning, at a pace that is, perhaps, disconcerting to most men.
With many women earning equally well, if not more, and having career aspirations and ambitions, what they want in a husband has changed.
To me, this requires the mind-set of a builder, who initially puts her heart and soul into what she builds and once the building is complete, would ensure that it is maintained with diligence.
Building a relationship memory by memory, experience by experience and year by year takes the patience and commitment to stay on since that is the most important thing. Respect for his own space Imagine a typical evening in most young urban households: both husband and wife return exhausted after a demanding day at work and in each other’s company, they would ideally like to exchange what transpired during the day.
In such a relationship, silences become beautiful and comfortable, and words are redundant to fill in those silences. A supportive motivator As the saying goes, “Behind every successful man there lies a woman,” but I’d like to believe that she will be by a man’s side as an equal partner, not in the shadows.
As a pillar of support, as a sounding board for a man, a wife can do wonders to a man’s confidence and determination.
Every man has a confidant to whom he turns when he has to share something important, something he is embarrassed by, something he’d rather not tell everyone, something he is passionate about but would prefer discretion.
If his wife happens to be this confidante over a period of time, he will be relaxed and most importantly, he will be himself in her presence all the time.
When you work out, you look healthier and radiant, and clothes look oh-so-sexy on you. It takes less than a minute for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. All girls know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls.
If you want to attract a girl at first sight, you have to remember that appearances do matter. Have a light hearted and fun approach towards life and try to look at the bright side all the time. [Read: How to use your sense of humor to date a girl] #6 A man who’s not a pushover. Be rich and drive a great car and you’ll have a huge advantage already.
Just like there are a few things about a girl that attracts you, girls too have their own wish list in a guy they meet. [Read: 20 things about women that sexually excite a guy] Likewise, women too have their own preferences when it comes to appearances.