But always remember, a specific interaction not working out is not the end of the world. Always be willing and ready to poke fun at yourself. And above all, just focus on having a good time with whomever it is you’re talking to.
Everyone I know either has Tinder on their phone, has it installed and doesn’t want to admit it, or is a nun. Are you able to ignite a little more than curiosity in your matches or are you the type of guy that gets featured on one of those “embarrassing Tinder stories” articles?
Heck, even I have it, and I hate the concept of online dating. Well, if you’re hanging your head in shame right now, don’t worry.
They send first messages endlessly with no results and constantly tell me how useless it is. I’ve heard countless horror stories and can’t blame women for being cautious.
Therefore, I have made it my mission over the last year to really decipher the online dating code. Your only goal in the first message is to assure her that you’re a normal guy.
You see, at the end of the day the first message isn’t really about what you say. So if you can get a girl giggling from the get go you’re off to a great start.
Example:but it still surprises me every time I read a Tinder horror story about some creepy guy going from 0-100 within the first few seconds.What they forget is that just the fact that they matched with a woman is an indicator that there is something about them that a woman finds curious, interesting or attractive.So instead of worrying about having to attract your Tinder matches, instead focus on finding things that you’re both into and can base a romantic adventure off.He provides tips on how to exercise and eat well, boost energy and feel confident in your own skin.He believes a healthy body and successful social interactions are two main keys to happiness.This might sound a bit hypocritical because at the end of the day Tinder is largely (if not entirely) based on a person’s looks.